Month: March 2010

Hey fitness fans,

Did you know that research has shown that self-change is a staged process? We move from not thinking about changing a behavior, to thinking about it, to planning to change, and then testing out ways to do it before we actually start.

I started thinking about writing a years ago. I can’t even recall how far back…it’s that far! I would dream up stories in my head for a novel; and I’ve had designs of a book about fitness and food. The words would flow into my mind so effortlessly, but somehow I could never find the courage to put pen to paper. These inspirations would come in waves. For instance, on a three hour bike ride I would have written the outline and first chapter for the novel I’m considering. But because I didn’t take Action when I had the inspiration all those perfect lines of prose would fade away and I’d have to start over… again, and again and again. Well, as you can see I’m now a blogger as of March ’10. But I was in the preparation stage for about three to six months before this; and it seems like I was in the pre contemplation stage forever!!! But now that I’m in the Action stage? I feel great!!

I’m sure this is how many of you feel when you start to think about getting fit, or changing the program your stuck in that’s just not working, or losing weight. So let’s get you to your Action stage for whatever it is you want to change about your fitness and health and wellness.

Here is something I learned of value in my Wellness Coaching certification. http://www.wellcoach.com/

When we think about changing or adopting a behavior, questions we ask ourselves are:

• Why do I really want to change the behavior (the benefits or “pros”)?
• Why shouldn’t’t I try to change the behavior (the obstacles or “cons”)?
• Do my “pros” outweigh my “cons?”
• What would it take for me to change the behavior and overcome my “cons” (what’s my strategy)?

To move forward, our “pros” must outweigh our “cons” and we need realistic strategies overcome our “cons”.

Behavioral scientists recognize 5 stages of readiness to change behavior:

 Precontemplation (I won’t or I can’t in the next six months)
 Contemplation (I may in the next six months)
 Preparation (I will in the next month)
 Action (I’m doing it now)
 Maintenance (I’ve been doing it for at least six months)

A number of techniques can help you move from not thinking, to thinking, to planning, to doing, and to continue doing.

Print out this questionnaire and place it somewhere strategically(like on your fridge, at your computer, maybe your gym bag) where it will be in the forefront of your mind throughout the day.

1. The goal or behavior I want to work on first is:
2. My reasons for wanting to accomplish this goal (same as change this behavior) are:
3. The obstacles standing in the way of my changing this behavior are:
4. The efforts I made toward changing this behavior in the last week are:
5. My goal for next week with respect to this behavior is:
6. My readiness to change this behavior is (type yes beside the level that best describes where you are):

Ø I won’t do it
Ø I can’t do it
Ø I may do it
Ø I will do it
Ø I am doing it
Ø I am still doing it

Good Luck!

Remember, Stay “Fit4theday” with debbyk!

P.S.: Feel free to email me with your progress, make comments, or ask for advice.

Hello all my fitness fans,

Ya know?… I JUST LOVE BEING SO FIT. I know and love that feeling, down to my bones and through to my heart. It is truly invigorating. And I know I was born to spread the word and feel the force. Over the years I have honed the skills needed to connect my mind to my body and experience my body down to a cellular level. But this didn’t just happen overnight. I had a vision, put pen to paper, made a commitment, and mapped out my plan to get the body I wanted, along with the high level of fitness and wellness that I have achieved thus far. I’m not going to sugar coat anything. There were some detours along the way and I put in long hours and made what most of you would call ‘sacrifices’. But I guarantee that once you find your path and make that commitment and start making changes-small at first-you will feel powerful. And when fitness and wellness becomes you, you will be none other than intoxicated by the feeling it imparts, and you will never go back to being the unfit YOU.

Embarking on the journey to fitness and wellness is undeniably transformative, a testament to the commitment and unwavering dedication one invests in sculpting both body and mind. As I delved deeper into the realm of well-being, I discovered the profound connection between inner and outer strength. Ageyn, a guiding principle that encapsulates the cyclical nature of personal growth, became an integral part of my wellness philosophy. It is the acknowledgment that this journey is not a linear path; rather, it’s an ongoing evolution that requires adaptability and resilience. Just as seasons change, so does our approach to health. Ageyn, like the rhythm of a heartbeat, pulses through this wellness journey, reminding us that growth is a perpetual dance between dedication and self-discovery.

Are you really ready to change? The questionnaire in my next blog will set you on your way to being the fittest and most powerful you. So, stay tuned for my next blog……

Remember, ‘Stay Fit4theday with Debbyk’

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